mjkta
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Post by mjkta on Jun 9, 2014 16:41:46 GMT -5
I like this guy, and he is a year older than me. I let a few of my close friends know, even some of my guy friends and one of them even talked to him. I was and still am so afraid that he won't like me, though I know he doesn't mind dating mixed girls( he's white btw). He likes his girls modest which is cool because I'm like that. He doesn't know what I look like but he knows my name. One of my friends who is in his grade told him that I thought he was cute an had a little crush on him, she told me that he was asking her who I was, what I looked like, and he was blushing. I really think he's cute and I want to get to know him better but I don't really know how. I get shy and start blushing( sometimes I even walk away) because I'm afraid that white guys won't like me but I have had the same thing happen before with other white guys and they liked me. Please help
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Post by kayjacks on Jun 9, 2014 20:59:37 GMT -5
I think that alot has to do with your mindset. I think that alot of us psyche ourselves out of liking a guy (although understandably so) but in many cases it ends up causing more harm than good. My advice is to try meeting him and seeing where it goes? I know you stated that you get shy so maybe with the help of your mutual friends you can all hangout or do something together with you two there so that it makes things more casual and less intimidating? I know it may seem nerve wracking, but you'll never know how things will turn out unless you try. And maybe something greater than you even imagined may come out of it  . I actually had a somewhat similar situation like you in high school where I had the BIGGEST crush on a guy (white) for 2 years but was afraid he didn't like black girls. I would try to strategically sit by him, ask his friends about him, etc. but I never really approached. Once my senior year came however, I decided to be bold and talk to him and eventually asked him to prom (got turned down though since he already had plans lol) BUT he asked me on a date some time after  . Even though things didn't go past that between me and that guy, looking back I would have never even known if he liked me if I never approached him. Also i'd say that the fact that he blushed after your friend described you and that he asked her who you were is a big plus so there's hope ! When you look back on your life years from now you'll be happier knowing that you did something (regardless of the outcome) than reminiscing about all of the things that you could have done. So with that said, I hope that you give it a try and good luck!  |
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. Even though things didn't go past that between me and that guy, looking back I would have never even known if he liked me if I never approached him.